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  • “I Took a Bunkhouse Travel Trailer on the Road: Here’s What I Loved (and Didn’t)”

    I’m Kayla, and I’m that mom who loves a good camp coffee and a neat sewer hookup. Weird mix, I know. We’ve owned a bunkhouse travel trailer for two seasons now. Ours is a 2022 Grand Design Imagine 2800BH. If you want to peek at the exact floorplan and factory specs, take a look at the official Grand Design Imagine 2800BH page. We tow it with a 2019 Ford F-150 (3.5 EcoBoost) and an Equal-i-zer weight-distribution hitch. It’s not tiny. But it fits our family, our dog, and way too many snacks.

    Want every nerdy detail of my shake-down miles, fuel costs, and packing fails? Check out the full road report on my bunkhouse trial for an even deeper dive.

    Let me explain what it’s like to live with one. The good, the messy, and the “why is that beeping?”

    Why We Picked a Bunkhouse

    We’ve got two kids and a niece who loves sleepovers. A bunkhouse just made sense. The kids have their own space. Doors shut. Feet smell stay back there. The big bunks in our rig are double-wide, so even my tall 12-year-old fits fine. When my sister’s family met us at Myrtle Beach State Park, we had four kids piled in the back bunks. No one fought for a pillow. That alone felt like a win. For a broader look at what makes bunkhouse layouts shine—and where they sometimes fall short—you can read this concise pros and cons of bunkhouse travel trailers guide.

    If you're weighing bunkhouse models yourself, check out the comparison guides at Valid Travel—they break down floorplans and tow weights in plain language.

    Our Setup (and what it weighs on the brain)

    • Trailer: 2022 Grand Design Imagine 2800BH
    • Tow: 2019 Ford F-150, Max Tow, 3.5 EcoBoost
    • Hitch: Equal-i-zer 4-point
    • Tools we use: Andersen levelers, Camco RhinoFLEX sewer hose, X-Chocks, and a cheap torque wrench I baby like it’s fancy

    Towing is steady with the hitch set right. On flat highway, I see 9–10 mpg. In the Smokies near Townsend, it dipped to 7. Ouch, but expected. Crosswinds near Jacksonville pushed us once, and the sway control did its job. I still kept both hands tight on the wheel. My palms told the truth.

    First Trips, Real Life

    Our first big trip was to Asheville East KOA. It rained three days straight. The kids lived on the bunks with books and Uno. I cooked quesadillas on the outdoor griddle, then ran inside to finish when the wind slapped the flame out. The power awning kept up, but water pooled on one side. I had to push it up with a broom to dump it. Ask me why my socks were soaked. Again.

    At Fall Creek Falls in Tennessee, we learned the pantry needed bins. Without them, chips became dust. With bins, my sanity came back. Funny how little stuff changes the whole mood.

    Sleep: Bunks That Actually Work

    The bunks are solid, but the mattresses? Thin. I added 2-inch memory foam toppers. Big change for small money. The top bunk has no ladder, so we used a folding step stool. It tucks under the dinette at night. The window near the bunks gets damp on cold nights. A cut of Reflectix fixed most of it, plus a dry bag of DampRid.

    Our bedroom has a sliding door. It’s not soundproof, but it helps when I’m up late planning breakfast and the kids are out cold.

    Kitchen: Inside vs. Outside

    Inside, the L-shaped counter is decent. I can chop, stir, and still lean on the sink. The oven runs hot in back and cool in front, so I rotate pizza midway. The microwave saves me on rainy nights. The fridge held five days of groceries on our Fort De Soto trip. Milk survived. Grapes did not. That’s on the kids.

    Outside, the mini kitchen is handy. I used it for bacon, fish, and smelly stuff. Space is tight, so I keep tongs and oil in a small tote. That tote now lives in the pass-through. If you cook a lot, plan for more table space. A folding camp table from REI worked great.

    For a greener spin on campsite cooking and gear choices, see the sustainable travel tips that actually worked for me.

    Bathroom and Tanks (the not-glam part)

    Shower is tall enough for my husband at 6'1". The skylight keeps it bright. The fan is loud but moves air. Our black tank sensor lies. It says “2/3 full” even after I flush and rinse. This is normal in RV land, but it still bugs me. We use a clear elbow at the dump and the Camco rinser. It helps. Gloves are not optional. Ask me how I know.

    Storage: More Than You Think, Less Than You Want

    The pass-through held chairs, levelers, a mat, and my tool bag. Inside, the pantry is tall but shelves bow with cans. I added simple center supports. Problem gone. The under-bed storage is huge, but don’t toss everything in or you’ll never find a hoodie at 6 a.m. I used fabric cubes and a label maker. Nerdy? Yep. Worth it? Also yep.

    Setup: 20 Minutes, Give or Take

    We got our routine down:

    • Park, chock, and unhook.
    • Andersen levelers for side-to-side.
    • Drop tongue jack and stabilizers (not for lifting—just snug).
    • Power out the slide.
    • Hook power, water, and sewer last.

    When I rush, I forget the water pressure regulator. When I don’t, I sleep better. Funny how that works.

    Things That Broke or Bugged Me

    • The slide seal squeaked the first month. A quick spray of seal conditioner solved it.
    • The dinette table wobbled. I tightened the base and added felt pads. Much better.
    • The shower trim dripped once. I resealed the seam with clear RV sealant. Dry since.
    • The AC is loud. Like, “what did you say?” loud. It cools fast, but you’ll raise your voice.
    • The bunks squeaked when my son tossed and turned. A thin felt pad under the plywood fixed it.

    None of these were trip-ending. Just real life stuff.

    Summer Heat, Winter Chill

    In Florida heat, the single AC worked, but we closed off the bedroom during the day and used a box fan to push cool air to the bunks. Window shades and a Reflectix panel in the bunk window helped a lot. In late fall near Chattanooga, the furnace kept us cozy. I ran a small space heater on low in the morning to save propane. We cracked a window to keep air fresh. No musty feel.

    What I Loved Most

    • The bunks make mornings quiet. I drink coffee at the dinette and write a grocery list in peace.
    • The pass-through lets me grab the griddle fast. No digging, no cursing.
    • The power awning plus LED strip feels like a porch. We played cards out there till the crickets got loud.

    What I Didn’t Love

    • The AC roar. Bring a fan for white noise.
    • The black tank sensor fibs. Trust your routine, not the light.
    • The outdoor kitchen is small. It needs a side table and a tote to be useful.

    Who It’s For (and Who It’s Not)

    • Great for: Families, dog owners, grandparents with grandkids, or anyone who needs real beds for more than two people.
    • Not great for: Solo travelers chasing tiny sites, folks who hate towing bigger rigs, or people who want a toy hauler.

    During our last loop through the Blue Ridge Parkway, I swapped campfire recipes with two seasoned solo lady RVers in their sixties who were out there chasing vistas and freedom just like the rest of us. If you’re curious about connecting with experienced women travelers—and maybe sparking something more—check out this community of local, adventurous older women where you can browse real profiles and see who’s parked near your next stop for shared stories, coffee, or companionship.

    Heading west and craving a similar social boost once you hit Southern California? When we rolled through the Los Angeles basin, I found that browsing the localized listings on AdultLook Downey let me quickly see who was nearby and interested in meeting up—saving me from endless app-scrolling and helping line up a friendly face (or flirt) for a late-night taco run.

    Traveling for work instead of pure vacation? Here’s [my honest take on travel dialysis tech jobs](https://www.validtravel.com/i-took-my-skills-on-the-road-my-honest-take-on-travel-dialysis-tech-jobs

  • The Best Time to Travel to St. Lucia (From My Trips That Went Right… and Wrong)

    I’m Kayla, and I’ve gone back to St. Lucia four times. Different months. Different moods. Same heart eyes when I see the Pitons. I took notes on weather, crowds, prices, and all the little things, like bug bites and boat cancelations. You know what? The month you choose really does change the whole trip. I even pulled everything into a quick reference post on the best time to travel to St. Lucia if you need the TL;DR.

    Here’s what actually happened to me.

    The quick answer you came for

    • My top pick: late May to mid-June
    • Close second: November
    • If you want zero rain and perfect water: March and early April (but prices bite)
    • Looking to dodge winter without leaving the country? Here’s where I actually travel in the USA in February.

    Before locking anything in, I run my dates through ValidTravel to see live flight sales and hotel promos.

    Now the stories that made me feel sure.

    March: Dry skies, clear water, higher prices

    I went March 2022 for a friend’s wedding at Sugar Beach, A Viceroy Resort. The sky stayed blue all week. Trade winds kept the heat comfy. I swam off the little pier, and the water at Anse Chastanet looked like glass. We took a Real St. Lucia Tours boat down to Soufrière, did the Sulphur Springs mud, and ate fish cakes by the road. No rain. None.

    But it wasn’t cheap. Rooms were packed. Dinner at Rabot by Hotel Chocolat needed a reservation two weeks out. I hiked Gros Piton with a guide from Fond Gens Libre. Dry trail. Great views. My legs? Toast. Worth it.
    So yes—March is dreamy. But your wallet will feel it. If you’re comparing months purely by sunshine and showers, the holiday weather guide for St. Lucia lays it out clearly.

    Late May to mid-June: My sweet spot

    I went late May 2023 and again in early June 2024. Stayed at Windjammer Landing one trip, then Bay Gardens Beach Resort on Reduit Beach the next. Prices dipped. Crowds thinned. The island felt relaxed, like it exhaled.

    Weather? Warm and mostly sunny. Short showers in the afternoon. Twenty minutes. Back to blue. I snorkeled at Anse Cochon and saw a green turtle glide past like it owned the place. The sea was calm on the Caribbean side. I did Pigeon Island at sunset with a roti in hand. Jazz Festival buzzed through May—good music, happy folks.

    Little tip: Bring bug spray. Not a big deal, but they do love ankles after rain.

    July: Carnival is joy… but, well, rain

    July 2021, I went for St. Lucia Carnival. Wow. The colors, the music, the feathers. I still think about the road vibes. I stayed near Castries, and went to the Gros Islet Friday Night Street Party. It felt like the whole island was dancing. For a peek at what else is on the cultural calendar, browse the official St. Lucia festivals and events page.

    Here’s the flip side. Showers hit most days. Humid. We had a boat day canceled once due to choppy water. Mosquitoes said hello. The hills glowed bright green, though, and the waterfalls were full. If you want a party and don’t mind some rain, July sings.

    Also, note the Atlantic side can get seaweed (sargassum) some summers. The Caribbean side stayed clear for me.

    October: Culture, cocoa tea, and real deal storms

    October 2019, I went for Creole Heritage Month (Jounen Kwéyòl). I ate green fig and saltfish, drank cocoa tea, and learned a few Kwéyòl phrases I still say wrong. Prices were low. Locals had time to chat. I loved that.

    But we lost a day to a heavy storm. Streets flooded in spots. We used that day to soak at Sulphur Springs and watch the steam curl up in the rain. Cozy, but not beachy. If you pick October, get travel insurance. I did, and I was glad.

    September: Big savings, big nerves

    I tried a quick weekend in September 2020. Flights were cheap. The resort was half full. Peaceful, for sure. Then an advisory hit, and I had to switch to an earlier flight. It worked out, but I didn’t love the stress. Also, some restaurants closed midweek.

    Where you stay matters (north vs. south)

    • North (Rodney Bay, Gros Islet): More nightlife, calmer seas, easier for kids.
    • South (Soufrière, near the Pitons): Wild views, great snorkeling, quiet nights.
    • Atlantic side: Prettier waves, can be rough and weedy in summer.
    • Caribbean side: Usually calm and clear.

    I get car sick, so those winding roads near Soufrière? Ginger chews saved me.

    Month-by-month cheat sheet (how it felt on my skin)

    • December–April: Dry, breezy, pricey, very popular.
    • May–June: Warm, light showers, fair rates, great mix.
    • July–August: Lush, lively, more rain, Carnival in July.
    • September–October: Wettest, quiet, big deals, storm risk.
    • November: Fresh restart—showers ease up, good prices.

    Water stayed warm every trip. I’m a wimp, and I got right in.

    Little things I learned the hard way

    • Book early for March and April. Tables fill fast.
    • Pack light rain gear May–November. A thin jacket does the job.
    • Bring DEET or picaridin and a plug-in repeller for the room.
    • Cash for small stands. My best bakes came from a tiny stall.
    • If you plan a Piton hike, go early. Shade helps.
    • Turtles nest March–August. Go with a guide at Grande Anse if it’s active.
    • Whale watching felt best for me in March. Calm seas, long views.

    Some travelers message me about the vibe at clothing-optional beaches around the Caribbean. If you’re curious to see candid beach scenes before deciding whether to bare it all, this gallery of nude pics offers real-world photos that can help you gauge the atmosphere and pack (or skip) that extra cover-up with confidence.

    Back on the mainland, some readers tell me they land in Southern California and still want to keep that grown-ups-only energy flowing during a side trip. If you find yourself near Menifee, AdultLook Menifee offers a curated roster of verified companions—saving you from endless swiping and helping you line up discreet, hassle-free meet-ups while you’re still in vacation mode.

    Who should go when (real talk)

    • Honeymooners who want near-perfect weather: March–April (or a splurge in December).
    • Families on a budget: Late May–June or November. If November tugs at you, peek at my favorite places to visit in November for extra inspo.
    • Party people: July Carnival week.
    • Divers and snorkel folks: March–June for clear water.
    • Culture buffs: Late October for Jounen Kwéyòl.
    • Solo chill trip: November—quiet, kind, and not too wet.

    My verdict (and a tiny contradiction)

    I tell friends: late May to mid-June is best. It’s sunny, calm, and kinder on the wallet. I stand by that.

    But my heart? It remembers July’s music and March’s blue water. So I guess the truth is this: pick the mood you want, then pick the month.

    Either way, get a cold Piton beer, watch the sun melt behind the Pitons, and let the island slow you down. That’s the part that never changes.

  • Big Rig Travels: My Rolling Window When I Need Road Time

    I’m Kayla. I review things I actually use. This one isn’t a gadget. It’s a live trucking channel called Big Rig Travels. And you know what? It feels like riding shotgun without leaving the couch (and if you want the full backstory, my deeper dive is right here).

    What it is (in plain talk)

    Big Rig Travels is a live stream from a real semi. The driver’s name is Steve. He hauls freight across the U.S. You see the dash view, hear the road, and chat with folks. The website shows a live map, speed, and even elevation. It’s simple, but it grabs you. Like a long song you don’t want to end.

    I watch on my TV through YouTube. I keep the website map open on my phone. That combo works great. If Steve’s rolling view sparks your own trip ideas, you can browse routes and book deals over at ValidTravel before you hit the pavement.

    How I found it

    One night, I was up late cleaning the kitchen. My coffee was cold. I clicked a stream by chance. It was a sunrise near Cheyenne. The sky went from gray to pink to bright gold. Trucks hummed by. Steve gave calm notes like, “Wind gusts ahead; watch the signs.” I was hooked by mile two.

    Real rides I took from my couch

    • Wyoming wind day: I watched the run from Cheyenne to Laramie on I-80. The wind was nasty. You could see snow dust whip across the road. Steve eased to 45 mph, flashers on. He talked about chain law and “high-profile vehicle” warnings. A weigh station sign lit up, but it waved him through. My heart still jumped a bit when a gust shoved the trailer. That part felt very real.

    • Chicago squeeze: One afternoon I rode along on I-294. Tight lanes, tight times. He called out lane changes early. “Construction left; we’ll keep right.” A trooper pulled someone over on the shoulder; he moved over like a pro. Quick stop at a scale in Indiana—green light, no pull-in. I learned how lane choice keeps a big rig happy.

    • Desert fuel and lettuce: On I-40 near Winslow, Arizona, he pulled into a Love’s. We watched him fuel. He showed the reefer (that’s the fridge trailer) set to 34°F for lettuce. Short pre-trip check: tires, lights, doors. It took ten minutes. Simple, clean, done. Back on the road with red rock views that made my living room feel huge.

    • Night run and quiet roads: One evening I let it play while I folded laundry. Dark highway. Headlights, reflectors, that low hum of tire noise. He used the Jake brake down a grade—soft rat-a-tat sound—and explained it as “engine braking so we save the service brakes.” I slept better after that. Like my brain got a reset.

    • SoCal port hop: Steve rolled a container from the Port of Los Angeles through Torrance just after noon. The palm-lined boulevards, quick merges onto the I-405, and endless stream of delivery vans made it feel like a real-life frogger level. If you ever find yourself laid over in the South Bay and looking for more than truck-stop coffee to fill your reset hours, the curated listings at AdultLook Torrance can connect you with vetted local entertainment options so you spend those precious off-duty minutes enjoying a break instead of hunting through random ads.

    What I love

    • The calm voice and steady pace. No drama. Just work done right.
    • The map and data. I like seeing the mile marker, speed, and weather.
    • Little lessons. He explains HOS (hours of service), scales, and trip planning without making it boring.
    • The community. The chat is called the Road Crew. It’s friendly. Mods keep it clean. I toss in weather notes sometimes. Folks say thanks.
    • The photos. I bought the wall calendar last year. Real truck-stop sunsets on thick paper. My office looks like a mini rest area, in a good way.

    What could be better (and why it’s still fine)

    • Streams drop in dead zones. Utah can be rough. Rural Maine too. It comes back though.
    • Night glare happens. Wet roads plus oncoming lights can flare the lens.
    • The mic picks up wind on some days. Not loud, just there.
    • No set schedule. It’s trucking life—loads rule the clock. I learned to roll with it.

    Who this is perfect for

    • Work-from-home folks. The tire hum helps me focus like brown noise.
    • Kids who love maps. My niece points at the states and asks, “Where’s the truck now?”
    • Aspiring drivers. You’ll pick up real tips on lanes, mirrors, and rest stops.
    • People who miss the road. My grandpa drove flatbed. He watched one stream and smiled the whole time.

    Little pro bits I learned (without trying)

    • “Bobtail” means the truck without the trailer. It turns sharper.
    • “Reefer” is a refrigerated trailer. Good for produce and dairy.
    • “Scale” or “weigh station” checks weight. If you see a green light, you roll by.
    • “Pre-trip” is the safety check before rolling out. Tires, lights, brakes, doors, leaks.
    • “Jake brake” slows the truck using the engine. Saves the service brakes on grades—those efficiency tweaks add up if you’re chasing sustainable travel solutions that actually work.

    How I watch like a pro

    • TV for video, phone for the live map. Easy and fun.
    • Rewind is your friend. Missed that canyon view? Go back 30 seconds.
    • Chat but keep it kind. No politics. Weather and road tips are gold.
    • Snacks. I swear pretzels taste better during I-70 mountain climbs. Need fresh ideas for truck-cab-friendly bites? Head over to ChadBites for quick recipes and honest snack reviews that keep your taste buds entertained while the miles roll on.
    • Morning coffee + Midwest sunrise. That combo hits different.

    Quick compare with other road channels

    • Trucker Josh does edited vlogs. Big Rig Travels is live, start to stop.
    • Nomadic Fanatic is RV life. Fun, but not a working truck. For a peek at what it’s like to haul a bunkhouse travel trailer instead, check out my road test of one and what I loved (and didn’t).
    • Trucker G has shop talk and community chats. Steve is pure rolling view with simple notes.

    Different flavors, sure. But if you want the road right now, Big Rig Travels wins.

    Tiny gripes that aren’t dealbreakers

    Once, the stream lagged through a canyon. Another time, the GPS froze for a bit. I shrugged and washed some dishes. When it came back, we were on a bridge with water flashing in the sun. Kind of felt like the road saying, “You didn’t miss much. Let’s keep going.”

    Final take

    Big Rig Travels gives me a front seat without the stress. It’s honest, slow in a good way, and real. I learned things I didn’t plan to learn. I also got peace I didn’t know I needed.

    My score: 4.5 out of 5.

    If you need calm, a bit of road, and a clear voice that doesn’t yell at you, this is it. Bring coffee. Bring a small snack. The next exit might be far, and that’s part of the charm.

  • I Actually Used Travel Insurance in Thailand: My Messy, Honest Review

    I used to think travel insurance was a “maybe.” Thailand changed my mind. I got sick in Chiang Mai, slid a scooter in Pai, and lost a bag in Phuket. Not all in one day, thankfully. But close enough that I kept every receipt in a Ziploc bag. You know what? I’m glad I did (I later pulled together a more data-packed version of this story in this deep-dive).

    What I bought (and why)

    For my first 3-week trip, I bought the World Nomads Standard Plan. I picked it because it covered medical, trip delay, and some adventure stuff. World Nomads also has a handy plan comparison chart that made the differences crystal clear to me.
    I had first compared a handful of options on ValidTravel, whose side-by-side charts sliced through the fine print and helped me pick the right policy with way less guesswork.

    On a later trip to Phuket and Koh Phi Phi, I used Allianz for a single trip—specifically their AllTrips Basic policy. I also tested SafetyWing for a month-long stay around Koh Tao. That one felt simple and cheap, but claims took longer for me.

    Small note: all three worked. None were perfect.


    Real things that happened to me (and what got paid)

    1) Food poisoning in Chiang Mai

    Day three. Pad Thai at a night market, then a clinic visit at 2 a.m. I was shaky, sweaty, and kind of embarrassed. The nurse was kind. The tile floor felt cold under my feet. Total bill: 2,800 THB, plus meds.

    • Paid upfront with my card
    • Kept the receipt, doctor notes, and my passport photos
    • Filed the claim online with World Nomads
    • Reimbursed in 9 days to my bank (minus a tiny currency fee from my bank)

    It wasn’t hard. I just answered calls fast and uploaded clear photos.

    2) The scooter slide in Pai (the “uh-oh” one)

    I rented a 125cc scooter. Light rain. Sharp turn. I slid. My knee met gravel. Selfie with a sad face? Sure. But here’s the key: I did not have a Thai motorbike license. Big mistake.

    • Clinic visit: about 3,200 THB for cleaning and bandages
    • Claim was denied under the motorbike rule
    • They told me I needed a valid license for coverage on motorbikes
    • I paid the whole thing myself

    Lesson: if you plan to ride, get the proper license and wear a helmet. The rule isn’t a joke.

    3) Lost bag for 36 hours in Phuket

    AirAsia misplaced my bag. I had flip-flops, a hoodie, and hope. That was it. Allianz covered “baggage delay” after 24 hours.

    • I filed a PIR at the airport (that little form at the luggage desk)
    • Bought a cheap shirt, shorts, and toiletries (kept all receipts)
    • They paid me $150 for the delay allowance
    • Money came in about two weeks

    It didn’t make me love airports, but it helped.

    4) Ear infection after snorkeling on Koh Tao

    This was during my SafetyWing month. My ear felt like a seashell stuffed with bees. I used their telehealth first. Then I went to a clinic.

    • Clinic + meds: around 450 THB
    • Submitted photos of the receipt and a short doctor note
    • Reimbursed, but it took about 3 weeks
    • Not fast, but it did land

    5) Storm delay on Koh Phi Phi

    A monsoon squall shut down the ferry. I could hear the wind shake the shutters. Allianz covered a “trip delay.” I stayed two extra nights near Tonsai Pier.

    • Kept the ferry notice and hotel receipts
    • Covered up to $200 per night for lodging and meals
    • Reimbursed after I sent proof of the weather and the canceled ferry

    I ate mango sticky rice and watched the rain. It felt cozy, which surprised me. Those unexpected hotel days also gave me time to experiment with a few little room tweaks—like turning a mug into a phone speaker—that I later cataloged in this hotel-hack roundup.


    The stuff no one tells you

    • Many clinics in Thailand want you to pay first. Big hospitals sometimes do direct billing. Bumrungrad in Bangkok often does this with certain insurers like AXA. Ask at the desk. They’ll tell you straight.
    • “Excess” is just another word for deductible. It’s the part you pay before insurance kicks in.
    • Pre-existing conditions? Usually not covered. I tried to get an inhaler refill covered. No luck.
    • Alcohol and accidents don’t mix with claims. They can deny it if you were drinking.
    • Keep copies of your passport, boarding passes, and policy number. I stored mine in my phone and in that Ziploc bag.

    What I liked

    • World Nomads had a clean portal. Clear steps. Claim paid fast.
    • Allianz had a good phone line. A human picked up. That helped when I was stuck.
    • SafetyWing’s telehealth was handy. I talked to someone without leaving my guesthouse.
    • Medical evacuation limits on the plans were high. I didn’t need it (thank goodness), but it gave me peace. Boat-to-helipad kind of peace.

    What annoyed me

    • Small print. The scooter rule got me. I knew it, but I thought, “I’ll be careful.” That’s not how this works.
    • Scanning every receipt felt silly, but it matters. Blurry photo = slow claim.
    • Currency stuff. My bank took a small fee when my claim money hit. Not huge, just annoying.
    • Gear limits are not huge. My GoPro was only partly covered on one plan. Read that bit if you carry cameras.

    My quick tips if you’re going to Thailand

    • Buy your policy before you fly.
    • Screenshot your policy card and the 24/7 number.
    • Ask the hospital about “direct billing” right away.
    • Keep every receipt, even small ones.
    • If your bag is lost, get a PIR at the airport.
    • Ride a scooter only if you have the right license. Helmet on. Always.
    • Call the insurer early. Start the paper trail.
    • Need a mental reset mid-trip? A short prayer for safe travel can calm the nerves when receipts and delays pile up.
    • Thinking of using personal-ad sites to find a travel buddy or a casual date while you’re in country? Check out this traveler-focused rundown of Doublelist Doublelist cheat-sheet so you can spot red flags, stay safe, and decide if meeting up through classifieds is right for you.
    • Passing through Western New York on a mileage run or visiting friends before hopping across the Pacific? For a U.S.-based example of how vetting and safety protocols look on escort-style classifieds, skim this AdultLook Buffalo walk-through which breaks down screening steps, pricing norms, and common red flags to keep you informed wherever you log in.

    The bottom line from me

    Travel insurance felt like a seatbelt. Most days, you don’t think about it. Then the road gets slick.

    Thailand is a joy. Street food, tuk-tuks, late sunsets over Koh Lanta. But stuff happens. I had two clean reimbursements, one slow one, and one denial I earned by being careless on a scooter. Would I travel there without insurance now? No way.

    Pick a plan that covers what you’ll actually do. If you’ll snorkel or scuba, add that. If you ride scooters, get your license sorted. Keep your docs tidy. Then relax. Eat the mango sticky rice. Watch the longtail boats. And let the insurance sit quietly in your pocket, doing its job.

    — Kayla Sox

  • Travel Social Work Jobs: My Honest, Road-Worn Review

    I’m Kayla, LCSW, suitcase always half-packed. I’ve worked travel social work jobs for three years now. Four states. Five contracts. Too many goodbyes. Still, I’d do it again. Here’s the real stuff—what worked, what stung, and what I wish someone told me.
    If you’re at the dreaming stage and just want to know what a travel gig even looks like, skim this solid primer on travel social work jobs I wish I’d found sooner.
    For anyone who wants the granular play-by-play, I also pulled together a deeper guide to travel social work gigs that fills in the cracks.

    My first contract: big city, busy nights

    Phoenix, 13 weeks, Emergency Department. Aya Healthcare placed me. Night shift, three 12s. Pay was about $2,350 a week (roughly $1,000 taxed; $1,350 stipends for housing and meals). I rented a small studio on Airbnb with a month discount.

    Work? Fast and loud. I made safety plans at 2 a.m., found detox beds, called shelters, and set up bus vouchers. I ran with Epic. I used “FindHelp” to track resources and 211 for quick referrals. Epic’s chat saved me when doctors moved fast.

    One night still sits with me. A mom with two kids needed shelter by morning. We got a DV bed after eight calls. The nurse hugged me while the printer jammed. We laughed, then I cried in the car. That’s ED life—heavy and bright at once.

    Small town Montana: many hats, one snow shovel

    Eastern Montana, critical access hospital, 13 weeks. Pay was lower—about $1,900 a week—but the stipend stretched far. I found a basement apartment on Furnished Finder. It came with a snow shovel and a very proud orange cat.

    I did discharge planning, care conferences, and weekend hospice calls. Cerner this time, not Epic. I wore Yaktrax over my boots and learned to warm up my car like a local. I also learned I can be “the only social worker” and still breathe. Slow pace. Real faces. Those goodbye cookies from the med-surg nurses? Still think about them.

    School year in Texas: long haul, deep roots

    Nine-month school contract with Soliant. LMSW accepted. Caseload of 35. IEP meetings, crisis checks, parent calls. Pay sat around $1,700 a week with some benefits. Different rhythm. I used Frontline for IEPs and Google Meet for family check-ins.

    I started a lunch group for shy fifth graders. We practiced what to say when your voice shakes. On the last day, one kid said, “Ms. K, I don’t shake now. I hum.” I hummed too. You know what? Slow work can still move fast in the heart.

    Corrections in Ohio: reentry, real time

    Maxim Staffing, 13 weeks in a medium-security facility. Safety training first. No phones inside. I created release plans, linked folks to MAT clinics, and set up ID appointments. I tracked beds through HMIS and called halfway houses over and over.

    Pay was about $2,100 a week. It was steady work. Hard stories. Clear wins. A man I helped called the office two months later to say he hadn’t missed a dose or a day of work. I saved that voicemail.

    Money talk, plain and simple

    • Weekly rates I’ve seen: $1,600–$2,600, with most in the $1,900–$2,300 range
    • Highest: big-city hospital ED or psych
    • Lower: rural hospitals or schools, but cheaper living helps
    • Agencies that worked for me: Aya Healthcare, Soliant, Maxim
    • Extras I got: $300–$600 travel reimbursement, license fee refunds, and sometimes a small sign-on bonus

    Ask about overtime, call pay, and canceled shift pay. Get it in writing. If it’s not in the contract, it’s a wish.
    To sanity-check those numbers further, I keep an eye on the national travel social work salary dashboards that update weekly—handy for seeing how hot (or tepid) certain states are running right now.
    To sanity-check those numbers, I cross-reference current travel social work rates posted on ValidTravel before I even start negotiating. For a nursing perspective, you can peek at my candid recap of trying LPN travel jobs to compare ranges.

    Housing: cozy or chaos

    I’ve used Airbnb monthly deals and Furnished Finder. I’ve also used Facebook groups, but watch for scams. Read reviews. Ask for a video tour. I bring my own sheets. It helps me settle fast.

    Pro tip: check GSA per diem rates when you negotiate. If the stipend looks thin for the city, speak up. Agents can push the bill rate; sometimes they just need a nudge.

    One side note about life off the clock: travel can get lonely fast, and plenty of us lean on quick-hit social apps to meet people in new zip codes. If you’re weighing whether a more risqué, Snapchat-style platform might help break the ice, I recently dug into this no-fluff SnapSext review that spells out the pros, cons, and safety tips so you can decide whether it’s worth downloading before your next assignment.
    For travelers headed to South Carolina, you might also appreciate a boots-on-the-ground look at Spartanburg’s adult nightlife—AdultLook’s Spartanburg rundown can give you a quick sense of reputable venues, local etiquette, and red flags to watch for, helping you make smarter choices about where (and where not) to spend your precious off-shift hours.

    Licenses and paperwork: boring but huge

    Every state wants something new. Some want fingerprints. Some want notarized forms. Keep a folder with:

    • ASWB scores
    • Grad transcripts
    • CEU log
    • Vaccine records
    • Two letters of reference

    My fastest license came in 2 weeks. My slowest? 11 weeks. Build a buffer. Honestly, waiting can mess with your budget.

    Tools that helped me not lose it

    • Epic and Cerner (get your logins day one)
    • FindHelp and 211 for resources
    • A simple Caseload spreadsheet (I keep it on a USB drive)
    • ID badge reel, pocket notebook, and those little sticky tabs
    • Compression socks for 12s (my feet thank me)
    • A “go kit”: granola, water, spare phone charger, spare pens

    Incidentally, my dialysis tech roommate swears by her own system; she unpacked it all in this straight-shooting travel dialysis tech review.

    The good, the blah, the hard

    What I loved:

    • Quick growth. You learn fast, or you learn faster.
    • Fresh starts. New teams, new tricks, new slang.
    • Pay that let me save and still see friends in new places.

    What was hard:

    • Goodbyes every 13 weeks. It stings.
    • Being “the temp.” You prove yourself again and again.
    • Housing stress. A nice place can eat your stipend.

    What surprised me:

    • Managers who’ll fight for you when you’re fair and clear.
    • How much kindness lives in break rooms.
    • How steady you can feel while moving a lot.

    Some travelers crave even quicker patient encounters—think two-minute draws and keep-it-moving vibes—much like a travel phlebotomist’s everyday routine.

    Who should try it?

    If you:

    • Like change and can set a clean boundary
    • Can ask for help on day one and give help on day three
    • Don’t mind packing the car like Tetris

    Maybe hold off if you:

    • Need the same team and routines to feel safe
    • Hate paperwork or slow licensing
    • Can’t do sudden goodbyes (it’s okay to want roots)

    Not a social worker? A lot of this still applies to allied roles—I broke down the nuts and bolts for MAs in my travel medical assistant write-up.

    My small bag of tips

    • Keep a license tracker sheet with dates and fees
    • Ask for a preceptor for the first week
    • Tour housing on video before you pay
    • Read the whole contract (start/stop times, holidays, floating, call pay)
    • Take your breaks—set a phone timer if you must
    • Save a month of costs, just in case a job starts late

    Final word: my rating

    Travel social work gave me grit, fresh skills, and a fuller heart. It also gave me tired eyes and a love for quiet coffee at 5 a.m. I’d call it 4.5 out of 5. Not perfect, but powerful. If you’re curious and a little brave, it can fit.
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  • Travel Radiology Tech Salary: What I Really Made On The Road

    I’m Kayla. I carry my lead apron like a suitcase. I chase sunsets, coffee, and good PACS. And yes, I chase pay. Folks ask me all the time, “So what’s the pay like?” Here’s the thing. It can be great. It can also be messy. Both can be true.

    I’ll share real numbers from my own jobs. City by city. Week by week. For the cliff-notes version, you can jump straight to my detailed travel radiology tech salary breakdown.

    How the money usually breaks down

    Let me explain how travel pay works for me:

    • Taxable hourly pay: the part the IRS sees.
    • Stipends: housing and meals. These are tax-free if I keep a tax home.
    • Overtime: time-and-a-half on the taxable rate.
    • Call and call-back: extra pay for standby and when I get pulled in.
    • Travel, license, scrubs: sometimes paid. Sometimes not.

    One more note. “36 hours” vs “40 hours” matters. Overtime after 36 is rare. Overtime after 40 is more common. Read the fine print. Ask for it in writing.

    Phoenix, AZ: level 1 hustle, sun on my face

    This was a 13-week gig. Nights. Trauma heavy. Lots of portables and fluoro. GE room. Clean department. Good lead.

    • Weekly pay: about $2,650 gross.
    • Taxable: $24/hr x 36 hours = $864.
    • Housing: $900/week.
    • Meals: $550/week.
    • Call: $4/hour standby. $60 per call-back, 2-hour min.

    My take-home ran about $2,100 to $2,250 a week. Taxes hit only the $864 plus any OT. Rent was cheap. I found a casita for $1,300/month and kept some stipend. I ate tacos after shifts and slept like a rock. Busy, but fair.

    Boston, MA: teaching hospital, high rent, smart team

    This one stretched me. Teaching cases. A lot of post-op checks. Siemens room. PACS went down one night, and we worked old-school. It bonded us.

    • Weekly pay: around $3,050 gross.
    • Taxable: $28/hr x 40 hours = $1,120.
    • Housing: $1,300/week.
    • Meals: $630/week.
    • Parking: $35/week (out of pocket).
    • Holidays: double-time on taxable hours.

    Take-home was about $2,400. Sounds great, right? But rent was wild. I grabbed a tiny studio for $2,000/month. I still came out ahead, but not by a mile. The unit was strong though. Charge tech was kind. We learned a ton. That stuff counts too.

    Rural Kansas: tiny team, heavy call, big weeks

    Critical access. One x-ray room. Portables that squeaked. I was the night, the day, and the weekend, some weeks. You know what? I liked the pace. Patients were kind. I brought snacks for the nurses. They fed me back.

    • Base weekly pay: about $2,200 gross.
    • Taxable: $20/hr x 40 hours = $800.
    • Housing: $900/week.
    • Meals: $500/week.
    • Call: $3/hour standby. Call-back at $45/hour, 2-hour min.

    But here’s the swing. I often hit 60 hours with call-backs. Overtime at $30/hr (time-and-a-half on $20). Those weeks hit $3,000 to $3,300 gross. Take-home? $2,300 to $2,600. Then I’d crash on Sunday with a big bowl of chili. Worth it? For me, yes. For every tech? Maybe not.

    Bay Area, CA: big pay, big bills

    Beautiful coast. Wild traffic. We used Philips and did a lot of pain fluoro. I wore black scrubs and carried a badge for three different labs. Good team. Pricy life.

    • Weekly pay: about $3,400 gross.
    • Taxable: $30/hr x 36 hours = $1,080.
    • Housing: $1,500/week.
    • Meals: $800/week.
    • Tolls and parking: $60 to $80/week (mine).

    Take-home was around $2,700. But rent? I shared a place. My room was $1,800/month. If I had taken a solo studio, I’d be broke. Shift diff helped, but state tax did bite. Still, the sunsets on the bridge? Kinda made it feel okay.

    Florida (winter): snowbirds, steady volume

    This was a 12-week run near the coast. Day shift. A lot of chest x-rays and ortho. Steady pace. Nice team. Sand in my shoes.

    • Weekly pay: about $2,500 gross.
    • Taxable: $22/hr x 40 hours = $880.
    • Housing: $1,050/week.
    • Meals: $570/week.
    • Call: light; about $50 per call-back.

    Take-home hit around $2,000. Rent was mid-range. I found a clean one-bedroom for $1,600/month and covered the rest with stipend. On days off, I read on the beach. I used SPF like it was my job.

    Quick math for the year

    People ask, “What’s the yearly number?” It shifts. Here’s my simple math from a “typical” year for me:

    • Average weekly pay: about $2,600 gross.
    • Weeks worked: 48 (I take breaks between gigs).
    • Gross pay: about $124,800.
    • Take-home after taxes: my average was $2,000 to $2,200 per week, so about $96,000 to $105,000.

    But remember: a big slice is tax-free stipends. Your W-2 shows the taxable part. That can confuse lenders when you want a mortgage. I kept pay stubs and letters from my agency to help.

    If you want to stack these travel numbers against what full-time staff radiologic technologists are reporting nationwide, the American Society of Radiologic Technologists just released a comprehensive study—you can download the latest 2024 Radiologic Technologist Wage and Salary Survey here.

    What made pay go up (or down)

    • Nights paid more than days. Evenings helped too.
    • CT cross-training boosted my offers. MRI helped even more.
    • 48-hour contracts paid more but drained my soul.
    • Big cities paid high, but housing ate the win.
    • Rural jobs paid less on paper, but heavy call brought big checks.
    • Winter in warm states stayed busy. Summer near beaches too.
    • Extensions sometimes added a $500 to $2,000 bonus. I always asked.

    Agencies and little things that add up

    I’ve used Aya, Triage, and AMN. Recruiters matter. Some got me great rates. Some… didn’t. I always asked for the pay breakdown:

    • Bill rate vs my taxable vs stipends.
    • Guaranteed hours (36 or 40). Cancel pay if they low-census me.
    • Overtime rules. After 36 or 40?
    • Call standby rate and call-back min.
    • Holiday pay rate. Which days count?
    • Housing stipend vs company housing. I like taking the stipend unless it’s a tight market.

    For another perspective straight from a big-name staffing company, AMN Healthcare offers a helpful overview of current radiology travel jobs and salary trends.

    Licenses and CEUs? Often reimbursed. I saved every receipt. Little wins stack up.

    Lessons I learned the hard way

    • Get everything in the contract. Verbal promises vanish fast.
    • Budget for gaps. Compliance can delay a start date.
    • Bring your own lead if you like a certain fit. My back says thanks.
    • Ask about scrub color. I’ve shown up in the wrong shade of blue. Oops.
    • Track mileage and parking. It leaks cash.
    • Keep your tax home if you want tax-free stipends. I talk to a tax pro each year. Worth it.

    Curious how the numbers stack up in other modalities? Check out this honest take on travel dialysis tech jobs, read what a colleague shared about life as a travel pharmacy technician, and see what she learned on the road as a pharmacy tech. If you’re more into veins and vacutainers, here’s what it’s really like as a travel phlebotomist. Nurses? You’re covered too—peep this real-deal review of LPN travel jobs. And for the multitasking clinic warriors, there’s [my real take on life as a travel medical assistant](https://www.validtravel.com/i-tried-life

  • The Best Time To Travel To Tahiti (From My Trips, Not Guesswork)

    I’ve been to Tahiti three times. June. Early November. And yes, sticky, stormy February. I learned a lot the hard way. Also the fun way. So here’s my take, real and simple.

    The quick answer I give friends

    • For near-perfect weather: late May, June, or September.
    • For whales and big culture: July to early October.
    • For deals: February or March, but expect rain and heat.

    For a Caribbean counterpart, here’s my honest take on the best time to travel to St. Lucia—similar trade-winds, different rhythm.

    Now, let me explain how I got there.

    Trip one: June on Moorea (clear water, cool nights)

    I took the ferry from Papeete to Moorea on a calm June morning. Aremiti, 7 a.m., coffee in hand. The air felt soft. Days sat around 82°F. Nights got cool enough for a light sweater.

    I snorkeled with blacktip reef sharks and rays near a sandbar. Water was glass. I ate poisson cru at Snack Mahana. Simple table. Lime, coconut, fresh tuna. I still think about that crunch and cream.

    One windy afternoon, the Mara’amu picked up. It slapped the lagoon a bit. Not scary—just choppy. My kayak trip turned into a short paddle and a long nap. Honestly, I didn’t mind.

    Also fun: Heiva dance teams were practicing in Papeete. Drums carried across the park. It felt like a heartbeat.

    Trip two: Early November in Bora Bora (shoulder season magic)

    Early November gave me sun, warm water, and one full day of heavy rain. Like, sheet-of-water rain. Then blue sky again. Prices were lower than in June. My bungalow didn’t cost me an arm and a leg, which felt nice.

    I lucked into the Hawaiki Nui Va’a finish in Bora Bora. Those outrigger canoes flew across that lagoon. People cheered from boats and docks. Goosebumps. I grabbed a baguette and papaya after and watched the golden light hit Mount Otemanu. You know what? That view messes with your heart a little.

    I also saw manta rays glide like kites near a cleaning station. Calm day, clear enough water. Worth an early start.

    If November travel is on your radar beyond French Polynesia, here’s my favorite places to visit in November that have treated me well.

    Trip three: February in Tahiti + Huahine (rainy, but sweet)

    February was the cheapest for me. My flight from LAX on Air Tahiti Nui ran about $950 roundtrip. Because the outbound flight left at dawn, I crashed in a motel in nearby Norwalk; if you find yourself with a similar overnight layover and want to scope out the local after-hours entertainment options, check out these AdultLook Norwalk listings—they compile up-to-date reviews and contact info so you can decide whether to venture out or just order room service. In July, I paid closer to $1,400. Rooms also dropped a bunch in Feb. So I rolled the dice. If you're curious, Air Tahiti Nui’s own advice on the best time to visit Tahiti lines up pretty well with my experience.

    It was hot and sticky. Afternoon storms came fast. Ten minutes of rain. Then steam. Then sun. I carried a light rain jacket and bug spray everywhere. Mosquitos loved my ankles.

    Still, the trip was good. I hit Papeete Market early for mangoes and warm baguettes. At night, I ate at the roulottes by the waterfront. Crepes. Steak frites. People chatting. Kids running around. Huahine felt sleepy and kind. I pedaled a beach bike in light rain and didn’t care.

    One rainy evening, I lingered under the eaves of a roulotte and traded jokes with the woman flipping my Nutella crêpe; she swore tourists always learn the cheekiest French lines first, like the playful “je montre mon minou.” If you’re curious how that tongue-in-cheek phrase shows up in real French slang, this page—je montre mon minou—offers an unfiltered look and might add a humorous phrase or two to your travel vocabulary before you touch down in Papeete.

    If you’d rather stay stateside when February rolls around, here’s where I actually travel in the USA in February for quick warm-ups and snow fixes alike.

    Weather in plain terms

    • Dry season (May to October): Less rain. Cooler nights. Great water clarity. Winds can blow in July.
    • Wet season (November to April): Hot and humid. Short, heavy showers. Warm water. Some days are gray. Many are bright.

    Tahiti isn’t about cold fronts or snow. It’s about clouds, wind, and how long the sun hangs around. Most days, you’ll still swim. If you want hard numbers to compare, the month-by-month weather tables on ValidTravel match almost exactly what I experienced. For the deep-dive charts, see my full breakdown on the best time to travel to Tahiti. For an official month-by-month rundown of conditions across all the islands, take a peek here.

    Crowds and costs

    • Busiest: June through August, plus the late December holidays.
    • Quiet and cheaper: February and March, and sometimes early November.

    My rough costs:

    • Flight: $1,400 in July vs. $950 in February (my numbers, yours may vary).
    • Room: I saw overwater bungalows go from “whoa” in July to “maybe I can swing it” in November. Regular garden rooms dipped even more.

    What changes by month (stuff I actually did)

    • Whales: I saw humpbacks off Moorea in September. A mom and calf breached, and my jaw dropped. Whale season runs July to October, sweet spot in August–September.
    • Culture: Heiva i Tahiti in July. I caught a night at To’ata in Papeete. Drums, dance, singing—electric.
    • Surf: I watched Teahupo‘o in late August. Wild, heavy waves. Not for me, but I stood on the point with locals and felt the power in my bones.
    • Hiking: I did the Three Waterfalls of Faarumai in June. Less mud than November. Bring trail shoes; the rocks are slick.
    • Snorkel clarity: Best on my June trip. November was good too, just a bit more haze after rain.

    Island notes that help timing

    • Tahiti (the big island): Best for markets, food trucks, waterfalls, and that surf energy.
    • Moorea: Easy ferry. Great for first-timers. Blue bays, quick hikes, mellow vibe.
    • Bora Bora: Lagoon drama, postcard views. Pricey in peak months.
    • Huahine: Quiet, green, and soulful. I liked it best in shoulder season.

    If you want fewer people and fair weather, I’d pick September for Moorea or Huahine. If you want the full “wow” plus whales, go late August or September. If you’re chasing deals and don’t mind rain, February can work.

    A few small tips I wish I knew

    • Pack reef-safe sunscreen and a thin rain jacket.
    • Bring bug spray, even in the dry season.
    • A light sweater helps in June–August nights.
    • Ferry to Moorea early to avoid the big crowd.
    • Cash is handy for snacks, fruit stands, and the roulottes.
    • If wind kicks up, switch to a waterfall or market day. Roll with it.

    So, when’s the best time?

    If you want one pick, I’d say September. Warm water. Fewer crowds than July. Whale watching. Good hiking. Pretty steady skies.

    But June comes close. And November can be lovely and cheaper.

    February? It’s hot and wet, but it’s real Tahiti—lush and relaxed. I’d go again with a smile and an umbrella.

    Ask yourself what you want most: perfect weather, wild whales, or sweet deals. Tahiti meets you where you are. Honestly, that’s why I keep going back.

  • Dogs That Travel: My Real-Life Hits, Misses, and a Few Weird Wins

    Quick note on what you’re getting here: I travel a lot with my dogs. I’ve flown, road-tripped, trained, ferried, and even Uber’d with them. I’ve used every item I mention. And yes, I’ve made mistakes so you don’t have to. If you want to see how my lessons stack up against another seasoned pet nomad, check out ValidTravel’s candid rundown of dogs that travel—real-life hits, misses, and a few weird wins.

    Meet My Two Co-Pilots

    Bean is my 12-pound terrier mix. She’s small, bold, and thinks every bag is hers.

    Milo is my 32-pound cattle dog mix. He’s sweet, clever, and hates hotel elevators. Honestly, same.

    They both travel. But they don’t travel the same way. That’s where the gear and the rules really matter.

    By the way, if you’re more of a cat-carrier type or just curious how our feline friends strut their stuff on the move, there’s a cheeky French photo journal called Je montre mon minou that reveals the ups, downs, and unexpected laughs of letting a kitty tag along; it’s short, visual, and might spark ideas (or at least a grin) before your first cross-city cat hop.

    Flying With a Small Dog: The Sleepypod Air Saved My Trip

    I’ve flown Alaska and Southwest with Bean in a Sleepypod Air carrier. It fits under the seat and still lets her curl up. That carrier breathes well. The mesh doesn’t cave in. It also has these smart little pockets that hold treats and a flat leash.

    The airport part isn’t that bad. TSA makes you take the dog out of the carrier. I keep Bean in a Ruffwear Front Range harness so I can hold her close while the bag goes through the scanner. She shakes a bit when the bins clank. I get it. I do a quiet “touch” game with a soft treat to calm her. Nothing fancy. For a broader checklist of pre-flight prep and in-air etiquette, I cross-referenced the American Kennel Club’s ten tips for traveling with your dog before our first trip.

    On the plane, I zip the carrier most of the way. I leave a tiny opening by my feet so my fingers can reach her nose. Weird trick, but it helps. The PA system is loud. Chewing a tiny bully stick keeps her busy at takeoff. My vet okayed a gentle calming chew for long flights (we used Zesty Paws Calming Bites once on a three-hour leg), but I don’t do that every time.

    What I love:

    • The Sleepypod Air actually fits under slim seats. I’ve done aisle and window.
    • The padding is thick. Bean sleeps hard in it.

    What’s meh:

    • If I’m in a hot gate area, the carrier gets warm. I use a small cooling towel inside. Not wet, just cool.
    • Southwest boarding with a dog and a carry-on plus coffee? It’s a circus. Ask the gate agent for a helper tag. They’ll smile, but it helps.

    Would I fly with a bigger dog? I wouldn’t. Cargo is a no for me. Milo sticks to car trips and trains.

    Road Trips With a Medium Dog: The Kurgo Harness and a Hammock

    Milo rides in a Kurgo Tru-Fit crash-tested harness with the seat belt tether. It clicks in fast. It doesn’t twist. That matters when you pull off for gas and a sudden skateboard rolls by and your dog acts like it’s the end of times.

    I tried a cheap hammock. It ripped. The Orvis seat cover with anchors and wide side flaps? That one lasted. It keeps the doors clean when Milo jumps in with muddy paws. I toss a towel over the middle for extra grip. Simple fix. Works.

    Water and snacks go in a Yeti Boomer bowl on the floor. It doesn’t slide. I also carry a MalsiPree leak-proof water bottle for quick sips at rest stops. For treats, Milo loves Bocce’s Bakery soft chews. Easy to break, not crumbly.

    We’ve done Portland to Boise, and LA to Joshua Tree. Windows cracked. Classic rock on. Milo settles after 15 minutes if my voice stays calm. Planning those longer hauls, I skimmed Kiplinger’s concise guide on retirement road trips with pets to pick up a few human-comfort hacks that actually translate well for any age driver. If I get tense, he gets tense. Funny how that mirrors kids, right? Those 400-plus-mile stretches made me curious about species stamina in general, and ValidTravel’s breakdown of how far a horse can travel in a day gave me a fun benchmark while mapping stops.
    Next spring I’m eyeing a loop around the Great Lakes with a pit stop in Michigan; everyone says the river trails in Ann Arbor are a dog’s dream. While plotting that leg I also looked up some strictly-human evening options and found this detailed nightlife guide, AdultLook Ann Arbor, which breaks down late-night lounges, easy-going patios, and other spots where you can unwind while your four-legged co-pilot recharges back at the hotel.

    Hotel Nights: Kimpton “Yes,” Random Fees “No”

    Here’s the thing: hotels can be friend or foe.

    Kimpton has been great. No pet fee when I’ve gone. They gave us a mat and bowls at check-in more than once. Milo loved the lobby pets. Bean loved the elevator buttons. She likes pressing things with her nose. It’s a whole thing.

    Marriott and Hyatt vary. I’ve paid $50 to $150 in pet fees for two nights. Sometimes worth it for location. Sometimes not. I ask at the front desk for a corner room by the stairs. Less foot traffic, fewer barks. This cuts surprise “woofs” by a lot.
    For a regularly updated list of pet-friendly hotel chains and their current fees, I often start my search at ValidTravel, which keeps a handy cheatsheet that’s saved me from a few pricey surprises.

    I bring a Diggs Revol crate for Bean when we drive. It folds, but it’s still a chunk in the trunk. In a rental car, it fits if I plan. When Bean’s crated in a hotel, she settles faster. Milo sleeps on a Rumpl blanket. He spreads out like a pancake, sighs once, and he’s out.

    For floors, I use Musher’s Secret on paws in winter. Hotel salt on sidewalks is rough. Boots? We tried Ruffwear Grip Trex. Bean marches. Milo moonwalks like he’s on butter. So boots are a “sometimes” thing.

    Trains, Rideshares, and Odd Little Trips

    Amtrak let me bring Bean in her carrier on the Cascades line. She stayed under the seat, slept the whole way, and only woke when a kid dropped a juice box. Staff was kind. Rules were simple: small pet, short ride, stay in carrier. Easy.

    Uber Pet has worked in San Diego and Seattle. I message the driver to say “tiny dog in a carrier,” and I bring a blanket. One driver had allergies but was okay with the carrier shut. Fair call. I tip more for that.

    Ferries? Bean stayed on the car deck with me on a Washington ferry. Wind, salty hair, happy dog. Milo sniffed every spot and then napped. Good day.

    My Real Go-To Kit (Stuff I Actually Use)

    • Sleepypod Air carrier (Bean’s plane and train bag)
    • Kurgo Tru-Fit harness with seat belt tether (Milo’s car safety)
    • Orvis seat cover hammock (full back seat, door flaps)
    • Ruffwear Front Range harnesses (both dogs, daily use)
    • Yeti Boomer bowl + MalsiPree water bottle (spill control)
    • Dexas Popware collapsible bowl (backup)
    • Wild One leash (nice feel, easy clean) and Earth Rated poop bags
    • Musher’s Secret paw balm (winter sidewalks)
    • Rumpl blanket (hotel “home base” smell)
    • Diggs Revol crate (hotel and family stays)

    The Stuff That Let Me Down

    • Cheap hammocks with plastic clips: they snap and slide. Annoying and unsafe.
    • Soft carriers with floppy sides: they collapse on a small dog’s face under a seat. Bean pawed and whined. Never again.
    • Clip-on car window fans: cool idea, weak power. They rattled and spooked Milo.
    • Leashes with fancy bungee handles: they felt great… until Bean slipped a hand loop while I fumbled a coffee. I went back to a plain grip.

    Food, Tummy, and… You Know, Poop

    I pre-pack meals in Stasher bags with labels. AM and PM. If we change time zones, I shift by a few hours each day. If I switch food on the road? That’s when we get “situations.” I bring a small roll of paper towels and a spray cleaner in

  • Good Travel Places in October: Where I Actually Went and Loved

    October is my sweet spot for trips. Cooler air. Softer light. Fewer crowds. Prices chill out too. I plan around harvests, fall color, and big, fun events. Here’s where I went, what worked, and the tiny things that made me smile. I also pulled together other good travel places in October if you need a deeper list to spark ideas.

    Why October hits different

    It’s shoulder season (that slow stretch between summer and winter). Lines shrink. Temps relax. I pack a light jacket and a scarf, and I feel set. Simple.

    When I need fresh ideas or quick intel on shoulder-season specials, I skim the user-shared itineraries on ValidTravel and usually find a gem in minutes.


    Vermont: Maple, color, and a road called Route 100

    I did a long weekend in Stowe and Woodstock. I drove Route 100 with the windows cracked. Leaves popped—red, amber, gold. It felt like someone turned up the color knob.

    • I stopped at Cold Hollow Cider Mill and ate a warm cider donut. Okay, two.
    • Smugglers’ Notch had a little wind. Leaves swirled like confetti.
    • I paid around $180 a night for a small inn. Weekdays were cheaper.
    • Go mid-October. Try Tuesday to Thursday. Weekends jam up fast.

    Tip: Book a car early. Bring layers. Mornings nip. Afternoons feel kind.

    Tiny joy: a maple creemee for about five bucks. Sticky smile. No regrets.


    Albuquerque Balloon Fiesta: Up before dawn, eyes wide

    I went to the Balloon Fiesta on a cool October morning. Ever stand in a dark field at 5 a.m.? The burners roar. The sky glows. Then—lift. A hundred balloons rise like bright candy.

    • I used the Park & Ride. It saved my nerves and parking drama.
    • Hot cocoa in one hand, green chile burrito in the other. Perfection.
    • Wear boots. The grass is wet before sunrise.
    • The “Mass Ascension” starts early. I got there by 4:30 a.m. Worth it.

    I bought a knit hat from a local booth. My ears thanked me all day.


    Munich: Oktoberfest feels big, loud, and kind of charming

    I went in late September, and stayed through the first week of October. The tents were huge, but the vibe felt warm. I wore a simple dirndl from Angermaier and comfy sneakers. No blisters. Big win.

    • I stayed at Motel One Sendlinger Tor. It was clean and close.
    • A stein cost around 13 to 15 euros. The pretzel was the size of my face.
    • Try a weekday afternoon. It’s calmer, and you can find a seat.
    • Ride the Ferris wheel once. See the whole fair swing under you.

    Cash still moved faster than cards for me. I tucked bills in a small belt bag and kept my hands free.


    Utah’s Mighty Five: Cool air, warm rocks, big skies

    I road-tripped Zion, Bryce, and Arches in October. Heat eases off, and trails feel friendly. Nights got crisp, so I tossed on my Uniqlo down jacket and watched the stars come alive.

    • Zion shuttles run smooth. Book an Angels Landing permit if you want that trail.
    • Bryce at sunrise? Pink cliffs glow like a soft fire.
    • Moab had chilly mornings. Coffee steamed in the air. Loved it.

    If you’re planning to roam solo, the places I felt safest and happiest are mapped out in this account of my U.S. solo trip.

    Bring a headlamp and a wide-brim hat. Sun still bites at noon. Water too—always.


    Napa and Sonoma: Harvest smells like jam and hope

    I went during crush. You can smell grapes in the air. It’s sweet and a little wild. I biked near Healdsburg, then did a picnic with salami and figs. Simple food just sings out there.

    • Tastings ran $25 to $40. I booked ahead for the busy spots.
    • Afternoons sat around the 70s. A breeze slid down the vines.
    • I wore flats and a sweater. No need to dress up a lot.

    Ask if you can see the crush pad. Hearing the fruit thrum is oddly calming.


    Hokkaido, Japan: Early leaves and hot springs

    Kyoto peaks later, but Hokkaido blushes early. I went to Daisetsuzan National Park in October. The air felt clean and sharp. I rode the ropeway at Asahidake, then soaked in an onsen and ate kabocha tempura. Cozy mood, set.

    • Pack socks you love. You’ll pad around ryokans a lot.
    • Nights got cold. I slept like a log after the hot bath.

    If you want classic red maples, go later to Kyoto. In October it’s calmer, with Jidai Matsuri on the 22nd. I watched the parade once—quietly grand.


    Salem, Massachusetts: Halloween town, but go smart

    I visited during Haunted Happenings. It’s fun, but weekends buzz like a beehive. I went on a Wednesday. Lines shrank. I toured the Witch House, grabbed a turkey club at Red’s Sandwich Shop, and let myself be a kid for a bit.

    • Street costumes? Yes. All day. All ages.
    • Book parking early or take the commuter rail.
    • If it rains, duck into the Peabody Essex Museum. Good plan B.

    Bring patience and a sense of play. It’s campy. That’s the charm.


    Quick picks that also worked for me

    • Portugal (Lisbon + Porto): Warm days, fewer queues. I ate pastéis from Manteigaria and walked Alfama till sunset.
    • Crete, Greece: Sea still swimmable. I stayed in Chania and had grilled octopus by the harbor.
    • Mexico City: Late October sets the stage for Day of the Dead. I saw bright papel picado in Coyoacán and marigolds everywhere.
    • Cape Town, South Africa: Spring light and whale watching near Hermanus. A friend drove us along the coast; we spotted two in one hour.
    • Tahiti: Tropical water is bathtub-warm and crowds are thinner before peak season; get the full scoop on the best time to travel to Tahiti if that’s calling your name.
    • St. Lucia: Trade winds keep the heat gentle, and shoulder-season prices can be kind—here’s when I found the best time to travel to St. Lucia to dodge the heaviest rain and incoming cruise ships.

    My simple October game plan

    Here’s how I keep it easy and sane:

    • Fly midweek if I can. Plan one “lazy” day.
    • Pack layers: tee, light sweater, thin puffer, scarf.
    • Shoes beat style. Always.
    • Set a Google Flights alert and watch for drops.
    • Reserve cars early in leaf spots. They sell out fast.

    Another stealthy trick: when I'm traveling solo and want a quick coffee buddy or inside scoop that never makes it into guidebooks, I swing by this Craigslist-style personals board where locals still post meet-ups, pop-up events, and last-minute tickets—perfect for adding an extra layer of authenticity (and sometimes new friends) to any trip.

    For nights when my October road loop slides through California’s Central Valley and I want grown-ups-only company in an otherwise quiet farm town, I pull up the discreet, photo-verified listings on AdultLook Corcoran—the clear bios, rates, and recent reviews help me connect with like-minded locals safely and skip any awkward guesswork.

    I also save maps offline and keep snacks handy. A granola bar solves so many tiny travel fights with myself.


    One last thing

    October travel feels like a deep breath. The air cools, but the world feels warm. Apples, balloons, beer tents, quiet trails—pick your flavor. If you want leaves, go north. If you want festivals, line up dates first. And if you just want calm, choose weekdays, set a loose plan, and let the season carry you a little. You know what? That’s the best part.

  • I Winterized My Travel Trailer Last November. Here’s What Actually Worked.

    I live where winter bites hard. Michigan. First freeze hits, and my trailer groans a little. Last year I rushed and cracked a tiny PEX elbow behind the outside shower. That taught me. This year, I slowed down. I did it right. And you know what? It wasn’t bad. A little messy. A little cold. Kinda peaceful, too. If you’d like the blow-by-blow version with more photos, you can skim the detailed guide I wrote right after finishing last November.

    My Rig and My Gear (Real Stuff I Used)

    • 2019 Jayco Jay Flight 24BH (Suburban 6-gal water heater)
    • 3 gallons pink RV/Marine antifreeze (Camco brand)
    • Camco brass blowout plug for the city water inlet
    • Porter-Cable 6-gallon pancake air compressor (set to 35 psi)
    • 1-1/16 inch socket + breaker bar for the Suburban anode rod
    • Teflon tape for re-installing the plug/rod
    • Camco water heater tank rinser wand
    • Battery Tender Junior trickle charger
    • Two DampRid buckets and a few Fresh Cab rodent pouches
    • ADCO cover and basic tire covers
    • Spare 1/2" SharkBite elbow (because of last year’s oops)

    The 24BH falls into the bunkhouse category—a floorplan that’s both a blessing and a puzzle on travel days. I spent a good chunk of the summer testing its limits, and I jotted down what I loved and what I didn’t for anyone considering the layout.

    I did this on a Saturday. Coffee in a thermos. Gloves in my pocket. My dog watched me like I was building a rocket.


    Quick Warm-Up: Power, Propane, and Safety

    I turned off the water heater the night before. No power. No propane. I let it cool. Trust me, pulling a hot anode rod is a bad idea. Ask my forearm.

    I also shut off the pump and opened a faucet to drop the pressure. Little hiss, then quiet.


    Step 1: Drain the Tanks and Low-Point Lines

    • I opened the fresh tank drain. Let it glug out on the gravel.
    • I found the red and blue low-point drains under the belly. I opened both. A little surprise splash on my shoe. Fine. It happens.

    I also drained the black and gray at the dump station a day before. Clean tanks make winter nicer. Less… mystery smells.

    If you prefer a printable reference while you work, this straightforward RV winterizing checklist walks through the same drain-first sequence. For an even deeper dive into what every RV owner should know before the temperatures plunge, Go RVing’s in-depth primer on RV winterization is another worthwhile read.


    Step 2: Water Heater—Don’t Skip This

    • I pulled the pressure relief valve first.
    • Then I used my 1-1/16 socket to remove the anode rod. It was crusty. I rinsed the tank with the Camco wand till the water ran clear. Little chunks came out. That’s normal.
    • I installed the water heater bypass. Mine is a simple three-valve setup. I set it to bypass so the pink stuff doesn’t fill the heater. That saves money. And time.

    I wrapped the anode threads with fresh Teflon tape and put it back. Snug, not gorilla tight.


    Step 3: Blow Out the Lines (Gentle Air, Not Hurricane Air)

    I screwed the Camco blowout plug into the city water port. Set my compressor to 35 psi. Please don’t go 80. I did that the first year and popped a faucet cartridge. Felt very smart… later.

    Then I worked one line at a time:

    • Kitchen sink: cold, then hot, till just air.
    • Bathroom sink: cold, then hot.
    • Shower: both sides. Don’t forget the handheld wand. Pull the trigger too.
    • Toilet: tap the pedal and let it spit air.
    • Outside shower: both knobs. This is the one I forgot last year. That’s how I cracked that elbow. Not again.
    • Black tank flush: short bursts to clear the sprayer head.

    It sounds fussy, but it’s simple—open, pfffft, close. Move on.


    Step 4: Pull Antifreeze Through the Pump

    My Jayco has a factory winterize valve on the pump. I flipped it, stuck the tube in a jug of pink, and turned the pump on. If you’re unfamiliar with drawing antifreeze through the pump, Winnebago’s clear step-by-step guide to winterizing your RV explains the process with photos.

    Then I went fixture by fixture, same order:

    • Kitchen cold till pink, then hot till pink.
    • Bath cold, then hot.
    • Shower wand till pink.
    • Toilet till pink.
    • Outside shower till pink.

    I used about 2.5 gallons total. I saved the rest for the drains. If you don’t have a pump kit, you can add one, or use a short hose on the pump inlet. But the kit is worth it.


    Step 5: Protect the Traps and Tanks

    I poured about a cup of pink down each drain. That fills the P-traps so they don’t freeze and crack. A little splash in the toilet, too.

    I like to add a quart of pink to both the black and gray tanks. It keeps seals wet and gives a little freeze buffer.

    Tiny tip I learned from an older camper at the dump station: cycle the toilet seal once after adding pink so it coats the blade.


    Step 6: Battery, Fridge, and Little Comfort Things

    • I pulled the negative cable on the battery and brought the battery into the garage. Battery Tender Junior on a shelf. It hums along all winter. No dead surprise in spring.
    • I propped the fridge and freezer doors open with a towel to stop mold.
    • Two DampRid buckets—one on the dinette, one in the bath.
    • Fresh Cab pouches in the pass-through and under the sink. I also stuffed steel wool in the small holes where pipes meet the floor. Mice hate that.

    I wiped counters, cracked the roof vents under the MaxxAir covers, and called it good.


    Step 7: Outside Wrap-Up

    • Greased the hitch balls. Quick wipe, little dab.
    • Aired the trailer tires to spec and put on the tire covers.
    • ADCO cover on, gentle fit, straps snug. Not banjo tight. Just snug.
    • Chocks checked. Locks checked. I snapped a photo of each step with my phone so I remember how I left it. Saves me spring panic.

    What Went Wrong Before (So You Don’t Repeat It)

    • I forgot the outside shower once. The PEX elbow split. I fixed it with a SharkBite in twenty minutes, but my knuckles paid the price.
    • I used too much air pressure. It blew the bathroom faucet guts. 35 psi is plenty. 40 max.
    • I didn’t bypass the water heater my first season. I sent two gallons of pink straight in there. Total waste. I laughed and then I swore.

    Time, Cost, and Mood Check

    • Time: about 2 hours, with coffee breaks and a quick chat with my neighbor about his smoker.
    • Consumables cost: around $30–$40 (antifreeze, Teflon tape, DampRid, pouches).
    • A local shop quoted me $189 for winterizing only. So yeah, I saved a bit.

    Honestly, the job feels calm once you get rolling. It’s a little like putting the garden to bed. You tuck things in. You make spring easier for your future self. And when I start craving highway stripes in February, a quick stream of Big Rig Travels—the rolling window I lean on for road time scratches the itch until the cover comes off.

    Winter downtime also means more evenings parked in the driveway than gathered around a campground fire ring. If cabin fever nudges you to look for some lighthearted human connection online, check out this candid Get It On review — it outlines the platform’s features, cost, and safety tools so you can decide whether a little casual chatting is the perfect antidote to those long, cold nights.
    Motorhomers who escape the snow by pointing their rig south toward the Gulf Coast often ask where the real nightlife is once the campfire dies down; if Biloxi, Mississippi ends up on your travel map, the local scene is neatly summarized in this helpful AdultLook Biloxi guide that breaks down prices, verification steps, and common-sense safety tips so you can meet new people with confidence while you’re soaking up that warm coastal breeze.


    Tiny Tips I Wish Someone Told Me

    • Label your water heater valves with